Good Inside

A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be

English language

Published March 13, 2022 by HarperCollins Publishers.

ISBN:
9780063159488

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4 stars (1 review)

Dr. Becky Kennedy, wildly popular parenting expert and creator of @drbeckyatgoodinside, shares her groundbreaking approach to raising kids and offers practical strategies for parenting in a way that feels good.

Over the past several years, Dr. Becky Kennedy--known to her followers as "Dr. Becky"--has been sparking a parenting revolution. Millions of parents, tired of following advice that either doesn't work or simply doesn't feel good, have embraced Dr. Becky's empowering and effective approach, a model that prioritizes connecting with our kids over correcting them.

Parents have long been sold a model of childrearing that simply doesn't work. From reward charts to time outs, many popular parenting approaches are based on shaping behavior, not raising humans. These techniques don't build the skills kids need for life, or account for their complex emotional needs. Add to that parents' complicated relationships with their own upbringings, and it's easy to see why so many …

3 editions

mostly nodded along

4 stars

If you agree with her view of human relationships - the first section is 'principles', that parenting is relationship building and repairing, that we're good, that happiness depends on connection and regulating fear and distress first, that behavior reveals our struggles not defines us, that shame and lies and control are all self-defeating ways to relate - then the specific advice in the second section gets fairly repetitive. Solid overlap with Whole Brain Child and Montessori-esque self-will-development. Pretty narrowly focused on parent-child and mostly younger to school age kids.